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Well well, what have we here? Jannah dropped in to spread some holiday cheer!
(Corny AF, I know…)
It’s the last week of the year and It feels so good to be in your ear as we bring this crazy 365 to a close.
(Wow, I’m on a roll)
Let’s show this last week who’s been living well, and kick off The Bold Opinion Show 2.12!
(Yeah, that just happened)
We are now broadcasting from 88.1FM WUBA’s radio frequency AND kicking out an online stream for our world wide listeners.
Jus like always, we’ve got bold topics and dope tunes to light your soul like that xmas tree in the window! On this silent night, we will be discussing aliens in California, how to get the best X-mas deals, where the #NFLProtest has gotten me so far, and why we are all horny during the Holidays! Continue reading The Bold Opinion Show 2.12→
I hate to admit it sometimes, but sure, I’m a millennial. I fall into that group of young people born in the heavily technically influenced world that we are in today. So because of that, we develop new ways to old habits.
Probably one of the most recognizably practiced characteristic of insecurity in millennial relationships are cell phone related. We live our lives through our mobile devices. This I cannot deny! It’s how we communicate. So, when it comes down to our relationships with others, our phones are the first source for information. But, why when we get hit with the,
“Let me see your phone…”
…we freeze and feel offended? An invasion of privacy? Got something to hide? Maybe you find yourself in a mixture of both. Either way, the question comes from the other party feeling insecure. Insecure that there possibly be a chance that something is going on that you are unaware of. Fear of the unknown. Fear of deception. Doubt will always be something in the back our minds, it’s human nature. But, we as humans have the mental ability to forcibly overcome those fears. It takes something called Trust. Easier said than done, of course.
Give someone you trust until they give reason to not have your trust; not a thought, a feeling, or an inkling. If you wonder what your significant other is up to, simply ask. Use your ability to inquire. If you’re told that nothing is to be revealed, let it be just that. Trust. That other person should respect you and the relationship enough not to have anything fishy going on behind those closed doors. See, respect is a big deal in any relationship. If there’s no respect established, there is nothing. Respect is foundational.
Small lesson in respect, sorry for getting off topic lol.
Anyway to sum it up, if your significant other doesn’t respect you or the relationship, there will be doubt and doubt leads to insecurity. BUT when in doubt, simply ask and take it from there.
Have the itch to look through your significant other’s phone?